Estate and mortgageNow Where Are Those Dishes? How to Survive Unpacking
In a short time, I"ll be moving again. The thought of it makes my hair
stand on end. Strangely enough, my trepidation doesn"t come from the
process of packing itself - although it"s certainly a pain to wrap all of
one"s dishes in newspapers and bubble wrap, to lug all of the clothes out
of the closet and to make the executive decision whether or not to throw
away that salad shooter that I"ve never used but for which I"ll probably
devise an ingenious use the moment I pull away from the local Goodwill.
No, instead it"s the unpacking that I can"t stand. It"s the tearing open
of boxes, the unloading, the mess all over my home that sits there for
days. The frustration of not knowing just where I put my silverware or
bath towels. The inevitable damage that always occurs to something ...
and Murphy"s Law guarantees that "something" will be the last thing you
wanted damaged.
Of course, if you"re the Martha Stewart of movers, you won"t waste a
minute letting those boxes sit idle. No, instead, you"ll plunge into
them, unpacking and arranging. You won"t get a moment"s rest until every last
possession has found a home. Those of us in the real world, however, have
to determine what must be unpacked first and what can be unpacked later.
We resign ourselves to the fact that our new homes will look like a
disaster area for an indefinite period to be determined by our respective
energy and sanity levels. After all, when you move into a new residence,
you"ve got a million loose ends to tie up, not the least of which is
starting a new job or helping get the kids acclimated to their new
neighborhood and school.
So forget about committing yourself to some imaginary timetable. Instead,
unpack in stages. But what stage should come first? What are the items
you need first?
Let"s step back a second. First of all, unpacking will be far easier if
you"ve labeled all of your boxes by their corresponding room, and either
you or the movers have placed them in the correct place. You"ll score
extra efficiency points by listing the contents of each box on the side.
If you haven"t done either one of these, then you"ll be spending quite a
bit of time breaking open boxes and dumping out their contents in your
pursuit of one specific item ... which, by the way, you won"t find until
you reach the very bottom of the very last box.
In which you room should you begin your unpacking? It"s a tie: your
kitchen and your bathrooms are both vitally important and rather pressing
in the scheme of everyday life. Even if you don"t plan to start cooking
immediately upon your arrival (and by the way, you shouldn"t - give
yourself a break), the kitchen characteristically is a gathering place
for families. Tackle this room early, and at least you"ll have a spot to eat
your take-out Chinese food or microwave popcorn. You don"t need to unpack
those items you don"t use often or don"t plan to use in the immediate
future - for example, your bread machine, carving knife or spice rack.
Just unpack the vital items for now (paper towels, coffee maker,
silverware and everyday dishes), and move the other boxes to the corner
of the room to clear a pathway.
Your bathrooms don"t have to look gorgeous, either. If you"re a
relatively savvy mover, you"ve undoubtedly packed a bag of toiletries you"ll
immediately need upon your arrival, including soap, toilet paper,
tissues, towels, shampoo and personal grooming items. Depending upon the size of
your family, you can certainly unpack in one bathroom initially, then hit
the others when you find time (or when World War III breaks out among
family members).
Now, you"ve unloaded the basics - the must haves. What comes next? That"s
really your call. You may want to consider unpacking in the room people
see first when they enter your home: your living room. You"re probably
going to have unannounced guests, and while nobody expects your home to
look like a showplace right after the movers pull away, you don"t want
your guests to walk into a disaster area, either. Again, if you"re a
veteran mover, you"ve already considered where your living room furniture
should be placed. You"ve sketched the layout so that you"re not straining
your back hauling those heavy pieces from wall to wall. Plug in as many
lamps as possible to create at least the aura of a home. Cut yourself
some slack -- the art on the walls and the accessories on the shelves can
wait. For the first few days, you"re just striving for furniture placement and
perhaps even hanging the curtains, if you can remember where you packed
them.
Last but not least, the bedrooms. The kids" bedrooms should come first
because establishing a sense of comfort is key to helping your children
adjust to their new surroundings. Encourage your kids to unpack their own
belongings and arrange them in their new rooms as they see fit. This
gives them a sense of control over the move. If you find yourself running out
of time to set up the bedrooms on your first day in your new house, drag out
a few sleeping bags, and gather the family on the living room floor. It"s
wise to consider before your move whether or not you"ll sleep on the floor
on your first night. Planning ahead will enable you to pack the family"s
sleeping bags in a spot where they"re accessible. Once you hit the
bedrooms, again, arrange your furniture according to pre-drawn sketches.
As the old saying goes, Rome wasn"t built in a day. And neither should
your palace. Take your time, save your sanity, and loosen your standards
of neatness and punctuality a bit.